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Single Black Male

  • The Butterfly Fallacy: How stomach butterflies will get you caught up
    We all know the feeling – the feeling defined as the Butterfly Fallacy! At the start, you can’t quite identify it. Maybe you can’t stop laughing off their joke or maybe it’s a connection over Botswanian folk music, which NO ONE else listens…
    - 15 Jul 16, 6:00am -
  • Fear, the Police, and me
    Hi … I’m a black man. In case you haven’t heard, there is some interesting news relating to my kind and the police. Seemed like a fitting time for me to talk about my story. I was born in the 80’s and grew up in the 90’s, with my formative…
    - 12 Jul 16, 6:00am -
  • Loving black people and the police – The Daily Show
    What more do we need to say?Original content from SBM.
    - 11 Jul 16, 6:00am -
  • The New & Improved SingleBlackMale
      Welcome to the New and Improved SingleBlackMale! Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither was our redesign. At some point, thought it would never get finished. But, we felt that our original look and feel was old and outdated and we wanted someth…
    - 9 Jul 16, 10:44pm -
  • Take Away: An Invaluable Lesson
    There is no all-encompassing formula for relationships. The diversity of individuals in this world ensures no possible algorithm for success, so consider yourself fortunate if you get it right and find someone whose values and perspectives beat to th…
    - 21 Apr 16, 6:00am -
  • Writing My Wrongs (Part Two)
    So, I’ve been in a relationship for over four years. And I’m a guy. Trust me, I know how to apologize. It’s an art form, really. And you could call me the modern-day James Porter of the sorry. Real men know what I speak. If you saw me, you’d…
    - 18 Apr 16, 7:00am -
  • Writing My Wrongs (Part One)
    I’ve always been passionate about black males – no, not in the Tyson Beckford way – I’m in a different zone like Mos Def. Nothing makes me happier to see us succeed; nothing irks me further when we go bad, like the 2% in the back of the fridg…
    - 11 Apr 16, 6:00am -
  • So That’s Why I’m Still Single?!
    “I can see why you’re still looking for a man,” he said. Let me set the scene of the crime, because you know the brother’s life was at stake as soon as the words left his mouth. It was a Sunday afternoon, right after church. The pastor had ju…
    - 5 Apr 16, 8:00am -
  • Stop Breastfeeding: How to be an Attractive Man
    source: http://heritagehealthmagazine.com/ Fellas, it’s crucial that you understand these two things: Seeking the approval of women actually repels them How to stop breastfeeding There’s always going to be some woman, somewhere, who’s annoyed…
    - 28 Mar 16, 7:00am -
  • Here’s How Russel Wilson Keeps The Good Guy vs Bad Guy Conversation Going
    “Will He Wait In 2015?” was a piece that I wrote back in July here on SBM. The piece used the new relationship between Russell Wilson and Ciara as proof that there are men that will abstain from sex with the right woman. I spent most of that post…
    - 17 Mar 16, 12:33pm -

ThisIsYourConscience

The Sexy Single Mommy

  • Golden Tips On How To Handle Problems In A Romantic Relationship
    Do you and your partner often get into petty arguments that translate into serious fights? Are you in financial pressure? Are you someone who is wrestling with an unhealthy relationship? If the answer to all the above questions is YES, you are defi…
    - 63 days ago 19 Sep 19, 4:00am -
  • 8 Simple Rules To Pick Your Life Partner
    It is, indeed, an art to pick the right person from the crowd for the right reason at the right time. It is a heck of a task to choose a partner with whom you can spend your entire life happily. Some people say it’s your instincts that make you fal…
    - 63 days ago 19 Sep 19, 3:38am -
  • How to choose the right life partner?
    Choosing a life partner is not an easy task. Looking at the divorce rate around the world except for countries where divorce is not legal, one would ask- should I marry given these circumstances? The answer is yes because history is a testimony to al…
    - 100 days ago 13 Aug 19, 12:47pm -

Black Girls Are Easy

  • Dating While Damaged
    Far From BasYcCategories: relationshipsTags: classicfeaturedWho hurt you and why can’t you let it go? Your childhood wasn’t ideal, how much pity do you need to move forward from that? Your first time loving someone ended with betrayal, h…
    - 9 days ago 11 Nov 19, 5:58pm -
  • Quarter-Life Crisis – Dating Advice For Your 20s (and 30s)
    Far From BasYcCategories: DatingMy 24-Year-Old Friend: Was popular in high school and had her pick of men. Now she can’t get past the first date with the kind of man she wants. Settles for dates with simps out of boredom. Recycles the dick…
    - 44 days ago 8 Oct 19, 11:48am -
  • Over Committing: Why You Should Never Put All Your Eggs In One Basket
    Far From BasYcCategories: DatingWoman A: Dates one man at a time. Is loyal to the “talking” stage. Emotionally invests in that one man even without a relationship title. Woman B: Dates multiple men. Understands that there is nothing wron…
    - 85 days ago 27 Aug 19, 2:11pm -
  • Is He Boyfriend Material or Settle Dick?
    Far From BasYcCategories: For The FellasSexNo matter if you’re a Hot Girl, City Boy, Book Worm, or anti-social home body, the summer will drop someone in your lap. I get the most emails asking for advice in July and August, mostly from wo…
    - 31 Jul 19, 8:44pm -
  • Signs You’re Going To Be Ghosted
    Far From BasYcCategories: DatingTags: ghostinginsightMen know after the first conversation how long it’s not going to last. Understand that it’s easy to box a woman in and classify her in the same category as prior exes or flings. This i…
    - 13 Jun 19, 3:23pm -
  • Spoiler Alert: He Doesn’t Want You!
    Far From BasYcCategories: Basic B*tchrelationshipsTags: classicThe email that started the fire… …since the last time you heard from me you will be happy to know that I hit reset like you said and was able to finally cut ****** off compl…
    - 15 May 19, 1:10pm -
  • Does Dick Make Women Crazy?
    Far From BasYcCategories: Basic B*tchSexGood dick causes temporary insanity in some women. I dare you to find a man that doesn’t have stories about seemingly normal girls flipping out after sex. It’s almost like a pissing contest to sit…
    - 2 May 19, 4:11pm -

Goddess Intellect

  • PSA: The Super Text
    Lately I’ve been experiencing whiplash from my past. I was never in an accident nor have I experienced any major injury to my back but somehow I know what it’s like to get a quick crack of the whip. It was a few weeks ago and one of my guy cousin…
    - 12 Nov 14, 8:30am -
  • [QUIZ] Could You Be Repelling The Love Of Your Life?
    It’s been awhile. I’ve been very busy soul searching, running errands and getting ready for the launch of my new lingerie line. Many are shocked and/or delighted with my decision to step fully into fashion but if you’ve known me forever, it mak…
    - 22 Sep 14, 5:38am -
  • [VIDEO] Myth Buster: Women Must Choose Between Love & Career
    The choice between a successful career and love is not always clear cut. Personal goals, current job satisfaction, financial needs and personal beliefs can all play in role in your decision, but why does it have to be a choice? We can manage multiple…
    - 3 Sep 14, 7:02am -
  • Goddess Eats: Pork Chop, Mashed Potatoes & Skillet Corn
    Another quick and easy home cooked meal for goddesses on the go, by Je’Tara. Check it out: Post image updated 4:41pm ET ~ Goddess Intellect Servings 4 Ingredients 1lb or 4-5 thick cut pork chops 1lb frozen corn Rotel tomatoes Evoo Half an onion (I…
    - 2 Sep 14, 8:30am -
  • [VIDEO] The Truth About Relationship/Dating Blogs
    Are you a dating blog junkie? I love writing blogs and sharing but I do not recommend using blogs alone as a blueprint for what your love life should look like. Here’s why: As much as you may love reading, it’s one thing to absorb the free advice…
    - 25 Aug 14, 8:58am -

Until I Get Married

  • How To Take an L Like a Man
    Nothing will make you feel more desperate than a sad song that speaks to your soul. For me, that was “Streetlights” by Kanye West. It was 2008 and his groundbreaking album 808s and Heartbreaks released right as I was going through the most signif…
    - 16 Dec 18, 9:39pm -
  • All The Things Nathan Did Right With Issa
    It’s only been one episode, but in episode 4 of Insecure, something amazing happened. Issa went on a date with a guy who wasn’t as polarizing as Lawrence or Daniel. Suspicious, yes, that’s an accurate way to describe the character named Nathan.…
    - 3 Sep 18, 8:39pm -
  • What Took Me So Long To Propose
    A post shared by Jozen Cummings (@jozenc) on Nov 25, 2017 at 4:14pm PST Before this happened on Friday night, the questions about when I was going to propose to Gina started being asked before her and I even crossed our one-year mark as boyfriend and…
    - 27 Nov 17, 9:20am -
  • Lemonade: A cautionary tale for men like you
    Ever since Beyoncé premiered her new album Lemonade on Saturday evening, people have been diving in with their theories on who she is singing about. Is it her husband, Jay Z? Her father, Matthew Knowles? Perhaps an amalgam of both? All this sleuthin…
    - 26 Apr 16, 11:24pm -
  • Writing about love during times of hate
    Love is a battle. Love is a war. — James Baldwin   Love is a difficult thing to write about. It doesn’t seem this way at first. We think there’s so much to say because there’s so much we feel in the moment, but then when we put fingers to ke…
    - 30 Dec 15, 8:25pm -

Black Love And Marriage

  • 3 Ways You Sabotage Your Sexual Satisfaction
    Visit BlackLoveandMarriage.com for the FULL STORY & So Much More!
    - 31 days ago 20 Oct 19, 10:51pm -
  • Why In The Hell Are We Always Arguing?
    If arguments were all you saw and heard growing up then it may feel natural to argue a lot. Truthfully you might get a high, an adrenaline rush from the excitement that arguing brings. But whatever...Visit BlackLoveandMarriage.com for the FULL STOR…
    - 32 days ago 20 Oct 19, 1:01pm -
  • 3 Really Important Lessons Being A Wife & Mommy Have Taught Me…
    By Aiyana Ma’at Life really is nothing but a big ol’ school with all kinds of classes to take and lessons to learn. I’ll admit that I looooove a lesson. I’ve always had an...Visit BlackLoveandMarriage.com for the FULL STORY & So Much More!…
    - 32 days ago 20 Oct 19, 1:46am -
  • I’ve Discovered That I Have Super Powers…..And You Do Too!!
    What’s up Fam, Hope you’re doing well today.  I’m doing pretty good.  I had a moment this morning that made me realize something special about myself.  Truth be told, it actually...Visit BlackLoveandMarriage.com for the FULL STORY & So Muc…
    - 32 days ago 19 Oct 19, 2:45pm -
  • Acknowledge That There’s Underlying Anxiety
    Visit BlackLoveandMarriage.com for the FULL STORY & So Much More!
    - 34 days ago 18 Oct 19, 1:26am -

Seriously Maybe

  • How to Deal with False Claims of Domestic Violence
    If your relationship begins to turn bitter and your significant other starts to act in a way that leads you to believe that they will file false domestic abuse charges against you, it is time to take notice. Domestic violence is a serious crime that…
    - 15 Dec 16, 12:44pm -
  • Tips For Men About Dating
    Dating has always been and will continue to be a complicated process. Where should you go for your date? What should you wear? Who should pay for the date? These are all good questions but can be very confusing. Here are some great tips for men by Na…
    - 12 Aug 16, 7:59am -
  • Her Checklist for the First Date
    First dates come with both anxiety and excitement. You’re excited to meet a new person. Even if you aren’t sure if the connection will lead to a long-term relationship, you value opportunities to expand your social circle. However, before you lea…
    - 19 Jul 16, 11:29am -
  • 4 Most Common Reasons for a Breakup
    Love is in the air. Sometimes it abruptly disappears into thin air. Not every couple can explain what happen to their passion and where everything started to go wrong. A breakup is something no one ever liked but it eventually becomes the only possib…
    - 5 Jul 16, 9:02pm -
  • The days for traditional weddings are numbered
    According to a survey among 500 engaged couples in the UK, the traditional weddings are becoming less and less popular and if the trend continues, might be totally out of our minds very soon. My Voucher Codes asked 500 couples the question “Would y…
    - 25 May 16, 7:33am -
  • What Modern Girls Really Look for in Men
    Love and family are the greatest values of our life. People seek each other, and sometimes it takes much time to find the one that fits you perfectly. We asked our gorgeous friends from Romance Compass – online ukrainian dating site about what kind…
    - 13 May 16, 9:36am -
  • Four Stereotypical Female Characters that Do Not Actually Exist…
    From scratch, you can remember numerous stereotypical characteristics of girls. Some of them are related to actual females, others just exaggerate prototypical qualities. Pop culture has created lots and lots of female characters that have no connect…
    - 2 May 16, 11:07am -
  • Top 10 First Date Ideas
    Is there anything sweeter than a first date tremble? You know, the one that goes after you through the whole evening? I cannot imagine something better! I went on many first dates; frankly speaking, most of them turned out to be a total disaster. Boy…
    - 11 Apr 16, 1:49pm -
  • What a Special Day…
    A toast to this special day and the perfect bottle to toast it with, Armand de Brignac (“ace of spades”). What a special day it is. Something about this day makes it worthwhile to want to write about. For those wondering what makes this day speci…
    - 29 Mar 16, 8:20am -
  • Can Men and Women really be friends?…
    Below is a short clip on Steve Harvey’s opinion about men and women being friends…Interesting
    - 18 Jan 16, 4:30pm -

The Naked Convos

  • The Audacity of the Naira
    2019 and it’s a whole new ball game. Naira ma ti binu ke. First, he incurs the ‘attention’ of the EFCC and by extension that of the national space with the maverick ‘Am I A Yahoo Boy?’ He spends some time in jail, he gets released amidst rh…
    - 94 days ago 19 Aug 19, 7:00am -
  • The One About Trust
    You can never truly know for sure if you can trust someone until you trust them. This is a long age principle for me, which probably explains my bunch of friends; the good, the bad, the ugly, the religious and […]
    - 7 Aug 19, 7:00am -
  • Who Female Empowerment Epp?
    Put simply, men are no longer desired by economically empowered women in the long-term committed sense of marriage. They may desire a man now and again, but men are definitely not close to what they desire for marriage (or the institution of bondage,…
    - 5 Aug 19, 7:00am -
  • Dear Father
    I want to be here, for Vanessa at least but I know that whatever we have between us might just be temporary. For a minute, I want to be alive. I want to breathe air, I want to look at someone and have my heart palpitate, and I want to see my mother s…
    - 2 Aug 19, 7:00am -
  • FOR HOW LONG (PART 3) . . .?
    Her mum adjusted on her seat. ‘What do you think people will say or do after this?’ her mother asked. Father sighed and folded his hands. ‘People will be angry and they will make their displeasure known, but they will […]
    - 31 Jul 19, 7:00am -
  • In Her Head: The Roommate
    Tobi could not believe this was happening again another amount of money was missing this time 2,000 Naria. She could not understand what was going on someone was definitely messing with her, she had just gone to the pack her […]
    - 29 Jul 19, 7:00am -
  • The Personalisation of Speedy Possibility
    A song which served to document this aspiration of suddenness in the Nigerian but appears to have past largely unrecognized in such respect is D’banj’s ‘Suddenly’. Other than ‘Oliver Twist’, there is perhaps no gainsaying that ‘Suddenly…
    - 23 Jul 19, 7:00am -
  • The Chronicles Of My Broken Heart
    Stage one was the crying phase, where anything and everything reminds you of this person and you find yourself crying over the littlest things. Oh that was the couch he sat on when he came to visit me that one time? Tears. Oh this was the top I was w…
    - 15 Jul 19, 8:00am -
  • My Continuous Struggle With Make up
    I face-timed my partner, because we always have this petty banter about my ‘wind-erosioned eyebrows’. Wind-erosioned, because I have very sparse almost non existent eyebrows and I always refuse to have them overly drawn. I usually just keep it li…
    - 12 Jul 19, 7:00am -
  • Millennial Romantic
    Being in love in a world full of millennials characterised by selfishness, pride, laziness and a sense of entitlement is actually one of the 1000 ways to die young. Given that I am a self-centered, lazy and proud millennial, I […]
    - 8 Jul 19, 7:00am -
  • The Pitiful Buyer
    "Wetin do your meat?" I quizzed him.His shoulders fell.On the table were pale brown meats, dark around the edges and devoid of blood; the type of meat that'll stink up an entire house when prepared."Na yesterday's meat. Yesterday na bad market…
    - 26 Jun 19, 7:00am -
  • Tuesday Morning.
    Floating in the water disturbing no one were sacks of crude oil being carried ashore. They were carefully packed in transparent polyethylene bags. Each sack containing approximately 5 liters of raw crude oil. A small ship at a safe distance was dropp…
    - 24 Jun 19, 7:00am -
  • The Angel
    The screeches of tires from the street behind me alerted everyone, shortly after, two blazing cars skidded into the boulevard, drivers faces twisted in rage. The skidding stopped and both drivers managed to get out of the cars right before […]
    - 21 Jun 19, 7:00am -

Choices, Voices, and Sole

  • This Post is Long Overdue
    Hey guys! Hey there! How you been?? So I’m sure you’ve noticed that the blog has been, ummmm… what’s the word? Quiet? Yes, quiet. As in I haven’t posted anything since May. MAY!!! That’s a long ass time. Well, I assure you it’s not been…
    - 5 Aug 15, 9:00am -
  • #TuesdayShoesday: Fabulous Shoes You can Wear to a Reunion
    You guys! This week marks the 10 year anniversary of my graduation from Howard University. I mean, what?! I can’t even begin to believe my friends and I are celebrating our 10 year reunion for undergrad, but this is where we are. But here’s the t…
    - 5 May 15, 9:00am -
  • That Pesky Foreboding Joy Thing Again
    Foreboding joy. It’s a concept we’ve talked about on the blog here already, but one that I wanted to explore again after the controversial death of beloved Grey’s Anatomy character, Dr. Derek Shepherd. For those of you who don’t watch the sho…
    - 28 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • Learning to be Honest in Dating
    Honesty is something a lot of us talk about. We say we want folks to be honest with us. We claim we’re honest individuals. We even say cliché statements like “honesty is the best policy,” but I would argue that many of us tell little white lie…
    - 23 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • “Mama I Made it”… on the Importance of My Accomplishments Jar
    This New Year’s Eve, I decided to try something a little different to set myself up for the new year. I didn’t make resolutions; I made an accomplishments jar courtesy of an idea from Buzzfeed. The basic idea behind the jar was that we all spend…
    - 21 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • QOTD: Do We (as a collective) Really Love Women?
    I can’t tell y’all how excited I was to see this image come across my screen this week. I saw the picture Ms. Debbie Allen put up last week (and squealed appropriately), so when I saw this was what she was talking about… y’all, I’m pretty s…
    - 16 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • Throwback Thursday — When I Finally Wore My Perfect Date Dress
    Hey y’all, it’s Thursday, and I’m preparing to make my way to celebrate a friend’s birthday in Las Vegas!! And since I was slack and didn’t give you all a blog post on Tuesday (sorry!), I figured the least I could do was post one of my fave…
    - 9 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • The Biggest Relationship Cop Out and Why It’s Hurting You
    Change. Such a simple word with quite a complex meaning. Webster defines it as “to give a different position, course, or direction to; to make a shift from one to another; to undergo a modification; to undergo transformation.” But I say one of th…
    - 2 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • What My Drink of Choice Says About Me
    I’m a whiskey girl, well bourbon to be exact, but we’ll say whiskey to keep it simple here. So when I saw Elite Daily did a post on the 10 Reasons Why You Should Always Go For the Girl Who Drinks Whiskey, I got super excited. Yes! They’re going…
    - 31 Mar 15, 9:00am -
  • Perceived Sexiness vs. What’s Really Sexy
    You see those shoes up there? They seem innocent enough, right? Don’t let them fool you, though. Not too long ago, they were the cause of one of my most embarrassing moments yet. But to their credit, they also helped reveal a crucial detail about w…
    - 26 Mar 15, 9:00am -

Black Women's Interracial Relationship Circle

  • They are Still at it!

    - 15 May 15, 4:58pm -
  • Please Visit the Link Below for my new Blog Post
    Visit New Blog Portal©Halima AndersonAuthor, "Supposing I wanted to Date a White Guy"
    - 23 Apr 15, 6:48pm -
  • Checking in...
    Hi FolksIts been over a month. I am still here lol!As a lot of my posting these days are not about interracial relationships but getting ahead as a black woman I am in the process of presenting these writings in another blog (I am still doing a bit…
    - 15 Mar 15, 7:19am -
  • She who has the Knowledge Wins!
    Today again it was brought to me how being in possession of the right information puts one ahead of the pack. I went out for a social event in a pair of impossible heels (the ones that are you know, ok for all of two hours and then you wonder how you…
    - 7 Feb 15, 12:08pm -
  • My God. Be Inspired!
    ©Halima AndersonAuthor, "Supposing I wanted to Date a White Guy"
    - 9 Jan 15, 5:41pm -
  • From the archives
    I can't believe its already over 2 years since I wrote the article below wow!Please re read from the archives while I try to shake a nasty cold.Enjoy!Link Find your own Personal Style! I attended a funeral service last week, with a high antecedence…
    - 5 Jan 15, 5:10pm -
  • BWE is about Balance and Focus on the major thing - you
    This is my last post of the year in which I wish us all a Happy Christmas and a very special New Year of dreams fulfilled and more dreams.I missed my planned post for the 15th of Dec. It just got suddenly crazy busy. It amazes me that we go through t…
    - 23 Dec 14, 6:01am -
  • Innovation is the name of the Game
    Look at all the amazing things we enjoy because humans are essentially animals of innovation.  Having just been to the dentist for some major dental work, I am thankful that certain fields of endeavor don't stagnated but move on and innovate sometim…
    - 1 Dec 14, 6:14am -
  • How well do you know your own Psychology
    and how well do you know your own body.?After many years of observing (or simply after experiencing it year in year out it became obvious) I realize that during the cold periods I am more or less in a constant state of colds and flus. I now realize t…
    - 16 Nov 14, 4:39pm -
  • Do you feel like you are outside the relationship know-how loop?
    What do you know about how men and women get together in your local area or your society as a whole. In the USA or UK or France but also in Wisconsin, San Francisco, Perth. In many a western country its a closed and stitched up loop from a very ear…
    - 3 Nov 14, 7:00am -
  • How to Naturally Staple (Shrink) your Stomach
    Self improvement blog alert!Before I tell you how to do this stomach shrinking thingy, lets talk about why the FASTING Diet (or FAST Diet or 5:2 Diet) might be good for you.I have just met a friend who has lost so much weight it's unbelievable. She w…
    - 14 Oct 14, 2:58pm -
  • A Man in Love, a wonder to behold!
    It's good to see a man in Love!A woman in love is great but to behold a man giddy in his infatuation is really a wonder to behold!And so it has been for Mr George Clooney in these past few days up to his wedding to Amal Alamuddin. Watching it restore…
    - 29 Sep 14, 2:42pm -
  • We are rooting for you!
    I received a lovely gift from one of my fellow Bloggers and readers, and I felt truly blessed. I can only say to S THANK YOU! My last blog entry was something from my personal circumstances and you know it got me thinking about falling short on all…
    - 14 Sep 14, 3:40pm -
  • Lessons from the Neighborhood
    Hope you all had a good summer!A little story for a teaching lesson: My neighbor and I had called in some estate officials to bear witness to another noisy neighbor. We were thinking that we had a good case because he was in full flow at the time wh…
    - 1 Sep 14, 5:41am -
  • Painstaking is how it must be sometimes
    Certain journeys in life will involve you building brick by brick. It can be discouraging and off putting but only by laying one brick on top of another can you get to the end goal. I am learning the need for patience with myself in a number of these…
    - 14 Jun 14, 5:29pm -
  • Find a way to get back in touch with the joy and pleasure of being a Female (which essentially means being different from males)
    It's getting hard to feel in touch with and positive about being a woman in our western society today, and I don’t say this because of real misogyny and attacks against the female of the species that we hear about everyday, especially in areas of t…
    - 27 May 14, 9:16am -
  • Those Ideas floating around in your head are for something
    Please note down the ideas that occur to you in the course of the day, they are important. You may have as many as 20-30 insights and unique ideas a day, how any of these do you capture in writing or as a voice recording? Make sure you regularly jot…
    - 5 May 14, 2:26am -
  • Dont let paucity of Imagination rob you of a glorious future Part 1
    Don’t let Paucity of imagination rob you of a bright and fulfilled futureFailure of imagination (FOI) stands as the second most critical factor denying many of us a bountiful life. The first is laziness. The reason why I place FOI second is that pe…
    - 19 Apr 14, 7:20am -
  • One Habit to take you to the Next Level
    I love my bed and I hang on to it as long as I can in the mornings, waking up only after the 3rd snooze alarm has gone off. I have known (at least in my head) that early waking helps you to get the best out of your 24 hours but I have always thought…
    - 16 Mar 14, 2:37pm -
  • Don't get led away from your goals and your dreams in life
    It seems that Mr Simon Cowell has finally been 'landed.' Ok he may not be married to the woman but he is now the proud father of an infant son and it seems very clear that he will do all he needs to be in his sons life! He has taken to twitter and o…
    - 3 Mar 14, 5:00pm -
  • Hunting for White Racism
    Hunting for and turning over rocks to seek out evidence of white hypocrisy about race, seems to be a very popular pastime with many black women. Each day I get dozens of emails and articles in my inbox, on the topic of 'outing' whites as racist, agai…
    - 6 Feb 14, 3:42pm -
  • 12 years a slave and other things
    I am noticing more and more black women make unconventional choices.Maybe not unconventional re the rest of the world but re black women themselves and the fact that they have largely limited their range within the wider world and the broader context…
    - 16 Jan 14, 4:23pm -
  • Halima on <...Break...>
    ©Halima AndersonAuthor, "Supposing I wanted to Date a White Guy"
    - 4 Dec 13, 12:01am -
  • What a wrong detour could cost
    If the wrong idea takes root in your thinking it could take you off course. For some it could be twenty years before they come back to their senses and by the time they do, they could have lost so much time and so many lifecycle-dependent opportuniti…
    - 17 Nov 13, 6:43pm -
  • She who has much, more will be given
    For whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them. Matthew 25:29I used to have a problem with this saying from the gospels. It seemed so cruel and so unfair to me.…
    - 3 Nov 13, 2:59pm -