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  • The Butterfly Fallacy: How stomach butterflies will get you caught up
    We all know the feeling – the feeling defined as the Butterfly Fallacy! At the start, you can’t quite identify it. Maybe you can’t stop laughing off their joke or maybe it’s a connection over Botswanian folk music, which NO ONE else listens…
    - 15 Jul 16, 6:00am -
  • Fear, the Police, and me
    Hi … I’m a black man. In case you haven’t heard, there is some interesting news relating to my kind and the police. Seemed like a fitting time for me to talk about my story. I was born in the 80’s and grew up in the 90’s, with my formative…
    - 12 Jul 16, 6:00am -
  • Loving black people and the police – The Daily Show
    What more do we need to say?Original content from SBM.
    - 11 Jul 16, 6:00am -
  • The New & Improved SingleBlackMale
      Welcome to the New and Improved SingleBlackMale! Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither was our redesign. At some point, thought it would never get finished. But, we felt that our original look and feel was old and outdated and we wanted someth…
    - 9 Jul 16, 10:44pm -
  • Take Away: An Invaluable Lesson
    There is no all-encompassing formula for relationships. The diversity of individuals in this world ensures no possible algorithm for success, so consider yourself fortunate if you get it right and find someone whose values and perspectives beat to th…
    - 21 Apr 16, 6:00am -
  • Writing My Wrongs (Part Two)
    So, I’ve been in a relationship for over four years. And I’m a guy. Trust me, I know how to apologize. It’s an art form, really. And you could call me the modern-day James Porter of the sorry. Real men know what I speak. If you saw me, you’d…
    - 18 Apr 16, 7:00am -
  • Writing My Wrongs (Part One)
    I’ve always been passionate about black males – no, not in the Tyson Beckford way – I’m in a different zone like Mos Def. Nothing makes me happier to see us succeed; nothing irks me further when we go bad, like the 2% in the back of the fridg…
    - 11 Apr 16, 6:00am -
  • So That’s Why I’m Still Single?!
    “I can see why you’re still looking for a man,” he said. Let me set the scene of the crime, because you know the brother’s life was at stake as soon as the words left his mouth. It was a Sunday afternoon, right after church. The pastor had ju…
    - 5 Apr 16, 8:00am -
  • Stop Breastfeeding: How to be an Attractive Man
    source: Fellas, it’s crucial that you understand these two things: Seeking the approval of women actually repels them How to stop breastfeeding There’s always going to be some woman, somewhere, who’s annoyed…
    - 28 Mar 16, 7:00am -
  • Here’s How Russel Wilson Keeps The Good Guy vs Bad Guy Conversation Going
    “Will He Wait In 2015?” was a piece that I wrote back in July here on SBM. The piece used the new relationship between Russell Wilson and Ciara as proof that there are men that will abstain from sex with the right woman. I spent most of that post…
    - 17 Mar 16, 12:33pm -


The Sexy Single Mommy

  • What You Need to Know About Puppy Training
    First-time dog owners usually have lots of problems with puppy training. This doesn’t come as a surprise, says Lene Kaufmann – a puppy training expert. When you see a dog you might think it’s all gonna be fun and games but it isn’t really so.…
    - 19 Mar 18, 2:50pm -
  • I Want Kids But My Wife Doesn’t. Is My Marriage Over?
    Advice: I want a family. She doesn’t. Do I end the marriage? Q: I’m 33 and my wife is 32. We’ve been married for five years and have a pretty good life—a nice house, interesting jobs, a great group of friends. Of course, our relationship…
    - 5 Mar 18, 11:32pm -
  • How to Choose the Right Lingerie
    What woman doesn’t like to feel sexy? There are a lot of ways to find your sexy but lingerie is probably the easiest. With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, many of us are looking for ways to spice up things in the bedroom and buying some…
    - 25 Jan 18, 10:12pm -
  • A Father’s Views on Co-Parenting
    A few months ago, I wrote a post called, “How to Co-Parent When You Can’t Stand His Ass,” which a lot of women could relate to.  Based on the responses, there are many women who are trying to figure out how to be successful at co-parenting whe…
    - 25 Dec 17, 11:51pm -
  • Single Because: “I’ve Been Through Some Shit!”
    I got married when I was 18 he was 21. I thought that since he was a little older he was ready. A few months into the relationship he was cheating. Long story short shy of 4 years married we were divorced and I became a single mom. Single After Divor…
    - 2 Oct 17, 6:00am -
  • Falling In Love With A Grown Man’s Potential Is The Absolute Worst
    As women, many of us have a super woman complex. We believe that we have the ability to fix all that ails the world.  While, I do believe that women have superpowers (the ability to multitask like no other), I simultaneously believe that we often fa…
    - 27 Sep 17, 6:00am -
  • Sugaring: Why You Will Never Get Waxed Again
    Have you ever heard of Sugaring? If you haven’t, I’m about to change your life. What Is Sugaring? Sugaring hair removal is an ancient middle-eastern practice which uses an all natural paste or gel made from ingredients like sugar, water, lemon j…
    - 25 Sep 17, 11:34pm -
  • Single Because: I’m Waiting For Someone With Lifetime Intentions
    When it comes to single life, I am single because I am going to wait. I feel like some people just don’t put in effort when it comes to pursuing someone with lifetime intentions. I could write a million words about how I feel about the opposite sex…
    - 25 Sep 17, 6:00am -
  • Fall Hair With Divatress
    This is a sponsored post. All opinions are mine. Happy Fall! With the cooler weather, many of us are packing up all of our summer clothes and pulling out our sweaters and boots. With the season change, most of us are ready to switch up our look and f…
    - 24 Sep 17, 11:28pm -
  • I Got Played Because I Didn’t Listen To My Intuition
    Have you ever met someone and felt an instant connection? Right from the start the sparks start to fly and you feel a certain closeness to them. On your first date, he is attentive, kind, caring and actually listens to what you have to say. Things ju…
    - 22 Sep 17, 6:00am -

Black Girls Are Easy

  • Why Won’t He Let Go Even When He Doesn’t Want You?
    Categories: InsightrelationshipsLife could be so simple if the man you like/love/crush on would just stop playing games. Why is he so hot and cold? Why is he unwilling to fully commit? Why does he push you away only to pull you back in? Is he tes…
    - 7 days ago 13 Nov 18, 3:49pm -
  • How To Spot Red Flags
    Categories: InsightA woman dates a man for three months and after they finally have sex, she pushes him for a commitment. The guy goes to the bathroom, comes back ten minutes later and confesses that he loves her BUT already has a girlfriend and he…
    - 19 days ago 1 Nov 18, 1:59pm -
  • Best Relationship Advice
    Categories: SpartanDating should never feel like hard work and relationships should never feel like an everyday struggle. Nevertheless, if you hear the average man or woman talk about the process of finding “the one” you get an earful of doubt.…
    - 24 days ago 27 Oct 18, 5:10pm -
  • Breaking Up For Someone Better
    Categories: relationshipsSexTags: featuredAs soon as you get into a relationship it’s like a Cuffed Alert goes off and everyone’s suddenly interested. Look at the options when you’re single versus when you’re in a relationship, it’s lik…
    - 34 days ago 17 Oct 18, 2:40pm -
  • Toxic As FK – Is Your Energy Holding You Back
    Categories: SpartanTags: featuredToxic As Fuck – Is Your Energy Holding You Back If they wanted you then why aren’t they with you? If they’re trying to build with you, then why is communication inconsistent? If they cared about you, then why…
    - 53 days ago 28 Sep 18, 9:59pm -

Goddess Intellect

  • PSA: The Super Text
    Lately I’ve been experiencing whiplash from my past. I was never in an accident nor have I experienced any major injury to my back but somehow I know what it’s like to get a quick crack of the whip. It was a few weeks ago and one of my guy cousin…
    - 12 Nov 14, 8:30am -
  • [QUIZ] Could You Be Repelling The Love Of Your Life?
    It’s been awhile. I’ve been very busy soul searching, running errands and getting ready for the launch of my new lingerie line. Many are shocked and/or delighted with my decision to step fully into fashion but if you’ve known me forever, it mak…
    - 22 Sep 14, 5:38am -
  • [VIDEO] Myth Buster: Women Must Choose Between Love & Career
    The choice between a successful career and love is not always clear cut. Personal goals, current job satisfaction, financial needs and personal beliefs can all play in role in your decision, but why does it have to be a choice? We can manage multiple…
    - 3 Sep 14, 7:02am -
  • Goddess Eats: Pork Chop, Mashed Potatoes & Skillet Corn
    Another quick and easy home cooked meal for goddesses on the go, by Je’Tara. Check it out: Post image updated 4:41pm ET ~ Goddess Intellect Servings 4 Ingredients 1lb or 4-5 thick cut pork chops 1lb frozen corn Rotel tomatoes Evoo Half an onion (I…
    - 2 Sep 14, 8:30am -
  • [VIDEO] The Truth About Relationship/Dating Blogs
    Are you a dating blog junkie? I love writing blogs and sharing but I do not recommend using blogs alone as a blueprint for what your love life should look like. Here’s why: As much as you may love reading, it’s one thing to absorb the free advice…
    - 25 Aug 14, 8:58am -

Until I Get Married

  • All The Things Nathan Did Right With Issa
    It’s only been one episode, but in episode 4 of Insecure, something amazing happened. Issa went on a date with a guy who wasn’t as polarizing as Lawrence or Daniel. Suspicious, yes, that’s an accurate way to describe the character named Nathan.…
    - 78 days ago 3 Sep 18, 8:39pm -
  • What Took Me So Long To Propose
    A post shared by Jozen Cummings (@jozenc) on Nov 25, 2017 at 4:14pm PST Before this happened on Friday night, the questions about when I was going to propose to Gina started being asked before her and I even crossed our one-year mark as boyfriend and…
    - 27 Nov 17, 9:20am -
  • Lemonade: A cautionary tale for men like you
    Ever since Beyoncé premiered her new album Lemonade on Saturday evening, people have been diving in with their theories on who she is singing about. Is it her husband, Jay Z? Her father, Matthew Knowles? Perhaps an amalgam of both? All this sleuthin…
    - 26 Apr 16, 11:24pm -
  • Writing about love during times of hate
    Love is a battle. Love is a war. — James Baldwin   Love is a difficult thing to write about. It doesn’t seem this way at first. We think there’s so much to say because there’s so much we feel in the moment, but then when we put fingers to ke…
    - 30 Dec 15, 8:25pm -
  • I Didn’t Fight the Guy who Disrespected me in Front of my Girlfriend, Here’s Why
    There has never been a moment when I stepped out with my girlfriend to a party and regretted it. We have nothing but good times. But whenever we hit the town, I feel an extra amount of pressure to be aware of our surroundings at all times and keep he…
    - 13 Aug 15, 4:23pm -

Black Love And Marriage

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Seriously Maybe

  • How to Deal with False Claims of Domestic Violence
    If your relationship begins to turn bitter and your significant other starts to act in a way that leads you to believe that they will file false domestic abuse charges against you, it is time to take notice. Domestic violence is a serious crime that…
    - 15 Dec 16, 12:44pm -
  • Tips For Men About Dating
    Dating has always been and will continue to be a complicated process. Where should you go for your date? What should you wear? Who should pay for the date? These are all good questions but can be very confusing. Here are some great tips for men by Na…
    - 12 Aug 16, 7:59am -
  • Her Checklist for the First Date
    First dates come with both anxiety and excitement. You’re excited to meet a new person. Even if you aren’t sure if the connection will lead to a long-term relationship, you value opportunities to expand your social circle. However, before you lea…
    - 19 Jul 16, 11:29am -
  • 4 Most Common Reasons for a Breakup
    Love is in the air. Sometimes it abruptly disappears into thin air. Not every couple can explain what happen to their passion and where everything started to go wrong. A breakup is something no one ever liked but it eventually becomes the only possib…
    - 5 Jul 16, 9:02pm -
  • The days for traditional weddings are numbered
    According to a survey among 500 engaged couples in the UK, the traditional weddings are becoming less and less popular and if the trend continues, might be totally out of our minds very soon. My Voucher Codes asked 500 couples the question “Would y…
    - 25 May 16, 7:33am -
  • What Modern Girls Really Look for in Men
    Love and family are the greatest values of our life. People seek each other, and sometimes it takes much time to find the one that fits you perfectly. We asked our gorgeous friends from Romance Compass – online ukrainian dating site about what kind…
    - 13 May 16, 9:36am -
  • Four Stereotypical Female Characters that Do Not Actually Exist…
    From scratch, you can remember numerous stereotypical characteristics of girls. Some of them are related to actual females, others just exaggerate prototypical qualities. Pop culture has created lots and lots of female characters that have no connect…
    - 2 May 16, 11:07am -
  • Top 10 First Date Ideas
    Is there anything sweeter than a first date tremble? You know, the one that goes after you through the whole evening? I cannot imagine something better! I went on many first dates; frankly speaking, most of them turned out to be a total disaster. Boy…
    - 11 Apr 16, 1:49pm -
  • What a Special Day…
    A toast to this special day and the perfect bottle to toast it with, Armand de Brignac (“ace of spades”). What a special day it is. Something about this day makes it worthwhile to want to write about. For those wondering what makes this day speci…
    - 29 Mar 16, 8:20am -
  • Can Men and Women really be friends?…
    Below is a short clip on Steve Harvey’s opinion about men and women being friends…Interesting
    - 18 Jan 16, 4:30pm -

The Naked Convos

  • Is Immigration For You?
    You find families who are all but set up in their home Countries with jobs and an established community selling off everything they have and going into a new Country where they do not know anyone and have to start almost afresh despite having gotten…
    - 2 days ago 19 Nov 18, 2:00am -
  • The Curse of Growing Up As A Girl In A Traditional Home

    - 5 days ago 16 Nov 18, 2:00am -
  • All The Colours of The Rainbow
    She was a rainbow. A perfectly formed one with a unique appeal. As I watched her for the umpteenth time, she looked back at me. I looked away shamefully, upset that I had been caught. She kept staring and like the coward I am, I kept my face down.Th…
    - 7 days ago 14 Nov 18, 2:00am -
  • The Seven Year Canon, and An Album featuring Duncan Mighty
    It would seem that an artiste for which 2018 has served as a year of maturating and of becoming; having enhanced her understanding of the Nigerian music industry is Teni. Following decent singles in 2017, Teni in 2018, particularly through ‘Askamay…
    - 9 days ago 12 Nov 18, 2:00am -
  • Brother You Can Wash My Draws
    How can you eat from a pot and then not want to wash its lid. Think about it. You just want what is inside and you do not care about how dirty the lid may be. Have you ever considered that some of us have liners on so the panties are just as clean.T…
    - 12 days ago 9 Nov 18, 2:00am -
  • Why Abortion should be Legal in Nigeria
    With the high cost of living and low income plaguing the country, raising an unwanted child is very expensive. It is time consuming, it drains you financially and emotionally. The onus is on the woman to bear the burden of taking care of the baby alo…
    - 14 days ago 7 Nov 18, 2:00am -
  • 5 Reasons To Accept Your NYSC Posting
    Don’t Die a “Home Boy”: Nigeria is one country for which the alias “Self-Contained” is nothing but apt. There is no ‘extreme’ you cannot sufficiently get out of this country: poor and rich; civilized and primitive; urbanized and rural;…
    - 19 days ago 2 Nov 18, 3:00am -
  • Between Celebrity Garb and Political Expectation: An Anonymous Interview Converged On Suits!
    When a celebrity artist dresses say with buttons open and parts of the body exposed, we find it palatable because they are artists. However, when a politician does this, it is unacceptable. There is a strong relationship between fashion, the position…
    - 21 days ago 31 Oct 18, 3:00am -
  • Burnt Petal
    I have to kill you before you kill me!” he quoted a bible verse or two, the one about training up a child and not departing from it as he fussed with the greatest hate I have ever seen. Ann my younger sister rushed in crying already, she heard me c…
    - 23 days ago 29 Oct 18, 3:00am -
  • Orubebe Time?
    The distance between their individual capacities and that of the President are not miles apart, if any. The PDP and its candidates want power at the centre for the PDP, and not for Nigeria. The APC wants the same, but it appears the lesser evil for B…
    - 25 days ago 27 Oct 18, 3:00am -
  • The Cycle of Grief
    I have since then fought the vilest battle against myself, holding on to everything just so I can hold my own without crawling back to her. The grief of mother’s death had now poured itself entirely on me and I had no shelter for refuge anymore. T…
    - 26 days ago 26 Oct 18, 3:00am -
  • Homosexuality and the injustice of Nigeria
    Some of us point out that we have bigger problems. A failing economy, a SARS epidemic, a disappointment of an administration, endemic poverty, tribalism, Boko Haram and so on. While this is all valid, we cannot so easily dismiss an issue that threate…
    - 28 days ago 24 Oct 18, 3:00am -
  • Does It Come in Vagina Version?
    Some may think, oh, must you shave it? Umm, unless you’re fine with having a conservation centre between your legs, you definitely have to find a way to sort things out. And the annoying thing is having to continuously do it – ugh. The post Does…
    - 30 days ago 22 Oct 18, 3:00am -

Choices, Voices, and Sole

  • This Post is Long Overdue
    Hey guys! Hey there! How you been?? So I’m sure you’ve noticed that the blog has been, ummmm… what’s the word? Quiet? Yes, quiet. As in I haven’t posted anything since May. MAY!!! That’s a long ass time. Well, I assure you it’s not been…
    - 5 Aug 15, 9:00am -
  • #TuesdayShoesday: Fabulous Shoes You can Wear to a Reunion
    You guys! This week marks the 10 year anniversary of my graduation from Howard University. I mean, what?! I can’t even begin to believe my friends and I are celebrating our 10 year reunion for undergrad, but this is where we are. But here’s the t…
    - 5 May 15, 9:00am -
  • That Pesky Foreboding Joy Thing Again
    Foreboding joy. It’s a concept we’ve talked about on the blog here already, but one that I wanted to explore again after the controversial death of beloved Grey’s Anatomy character, Dr. Derek Shepherd. For those of you who don’t watch the sho…
    - 28 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • Learning to be Honest in Dating
    Honesty is something a lot of us talk about. We say we want folks to be honest with us. We claim we’re honest individuals. We even say cliché statements like “honesty is the best policy,” but I would argue that many of us tell little white lie…
    - 23 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • “Mama I Made it”… on the Importance of My Accomplishments Jar
    This New Year’s Eve, I decided to try something a little different to set myself up for the new year. I didn’t make resolutions; I made an accomplishments jar courtesy of an idea from Buzzfeed. The basic idea behind the jar was that we all spend…
    - 21 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • QOTD: Do We (as a collective) Really Love Women?
    I can’t tell y’all how excited I was to see this image come across my screen this week. I saw the picture Ms. Debbie Allen put up last week (and squealed appropriately), so when I saw this was what she was talking about… y’all, I’m pretty s…
    - 16 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • Throwback Thursday — When I Finally Wore My Perfect Date Dress
    Hey y’all, it’s Thursday, and I’m preparing to make my way to celebrate a friend’s birthday in Las Vegas!! And since I was slack and didn’t give you all a blog post on Tuesday (sorry!), I figured the least I could do was post one of my fave…
    - 9 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • The Biggest Relationship Cop Out and Why It’s Hurting You
    Change. Such a simple word with quite a complex meaning. Webster defines it as “to give a different position, course, or direction to; to make a shift from one to another; to undergo a modification; to undergo transformation.” But I say one of th…
    - 2 Apr 15, 9:00am -
  • What My Drink of Choice Says About Me
    I’m a whiskey girl, well bourbon to be exact, but we’ll say whiskey to keep it simple here. So when I saw Elite Daily did a post on the 10 Reasons Why You Should Always Go For the Girl Who Drinks Whiskey, I got super excited. Yes! They’re going…
    - 31 Mar 15, 9:00am -
  • Perceived Sexiness vs. What’s Really Sexy
    You see those shoes up there? They seem innocent enough, right? Don’t let them fool you, though. Not too long ago, they were the cause of one of my most embarrassing moments yet. But to their credit, they also helped reveal a crucial detail about w…
    - 26 Mar 15, 9:00am -

Black Women's Interracial Relationship Circle

  • They are Still at it!

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  • Checking in...
    Hi FolksIts been over a month. I am still here lol!As a lot of my posting these days are not about interracial relationships but getting ahead as a black woman I am in the process of presenting these writings in another blog (I am still doing a bit…
    - 15 Mar 15, 7:19am -
  • She who has the Knowledge Wins!
    Today again it was brought to me how being in possession of the right information puts one ahead of the pack. I went out for a social event in a pair of impossible heels (the ones that are you know, ok for all of two hours and then you wonder how you…
    - 7 Feb 15, 12:08pm -
  • My God. Be Inspired!
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    - 9 Jan 15, 5:41pm -
  • From the archives
    I can't believe its already over 2 years since I wrote the article below wow!Please re read from the archives while I try to shake a nasty cold.Enjoy!Link Find your own Personal Style! I attended a funeral service last week, with a high antecedence…
    - 5 Jan 15, 5:10pm -
  • BWE is about Balance and Focus on the major thing - you
    This is my last post of the year in which I wish us all a Happy Christmas and a very special New Year of dreams fulfilled and more dreams.I missed my planned post for the 15th of Dec. It just got suddenly crazy busy. It amazes me that we go through t…
    - 23 Dec 14, 6:01am -
  • Innovation is the name of the Game
    Look at all the amazing things we enjoy because humans are essentially animals of innovation.  Having just been to the dentist for some major dental work, I am thankful that certain fields of endeavor don't stagnated but move on and innovate sometim…
    - 1 Dec 14, 6:14am -
  • How well do you know your own Psychology
    and how well do you know your own body.?After many years of observing (or simply after experiencing it year in year out it became obvious) I realize that during the cold periods I am more or less in a constant state of colds and flus. I now realize t…
    - 16 Nov 14, 4:39pm -
  • Do you feel like you are outside the relationship know-how loop?
    What do you know about how men and women get together in your local area or your society as a whole. In the USA or UK or France but also in Wisconsin, San Francisco, Perth. In many a western country its a closed and stitched up loop from a very ear…
    - 3 Nov 14, 7:00am -
  • How to Naturally Staple (Shrink) your Stomach
    Self improvement blog alert!Before I tell you how to do this stomach shrinking thingy, lets talk about why the FASTING Diet (or FAST Diet or 5:2 Diet) might be good for you.I have just met a friend who has lost so much weight it's unbelievable. She w…
    - 14 Oct 14, 2:58pm -
  • A Man in Love, a wonder to behold!
    It's good to see a man in Love!A woman in love is great but to behold a man giddy in his infatuation is really a wonder to behold!And so it has been for Mr George Clooney in these past few days up to his wedding to Amal Alamuddin. Watching it restore…
    - 29 Sep 14, 2:42pm -
  • We are rooting for you!
    I received a lovely gift from one of my fellow Bloggers and readers, and I felt truly blessed. I can only say to S THANK YOU! My last blog entry was something from my personal circumstances and you know it got me thinking about falling short on all…
    - 14 Sep 14, 3:40pm -
  • Lessons from the Neighborhood
    Hope you all had a good summer!A little story for a teaching lesson: My neighbor and I had called in some estate officials to bear witness to another noisy neighbor. We were thinking that we had a good case because he was in full flow at the time wh…
    - 1 Sep 14, 5:41am -
  • Painstaking is how it must be sometimes
    Certain journeys in life will involve you building brick by brick. It can be discouraging and off putting but only by laying one brick on top of another can you get to the end goal. I am learning the need for patience with myself in a number of these…
    - 14 Jun 14, 5:29pm -
  • Find a way to get back in touch with the joy and pleasure of being a Female (which essentially means being different from males)
    It's getting hard to feel in touch with and positive about being a woman in our western society today, and I don’t say this because of real misogyny and attacks against the female of the species that we hear about everyday, especially in areas of t…
    - 27 May 14, 9:16am -
  • Those Ideas floating around in your head are for something
    Please note down the ideas that occur to you in the course of the day, they are important. You may have as many as 20-30 insights and unique ideas a day, how any of these do you capture in writing or as a voice recording? Make sure you regularly jot…
    - 5 May 14, 2:26am -
  • Dont let paucity of Imagination rob you of a glorious future Part 1
    Don’t let Paucity of imagination rob you of a bright and fulfilled futureFailure of imagination (FOI) stands as the second most critical factor denying many of us a bountiful life. The first is laziness. The reason why I place FOI second is that pe…
    - 19 Apr 14, 7:20am -
  • One Habit to take you to the Next Level
    I love my bed and I hang on to it as long as I can in the mornings, waking up only after the 3rd snooze alarm has gone off. I have known (at least in my head) that early waking helps you to get the best out of your 24 hours but I have always thought…
    - 16 Mar 14, 2:37pm -
  • Don't get led away from your goals and your dreams in life
    It seems that Mr Simon Cowell has finally been 'landed.' Ok he may not be married to the woman but he is now the proud father of an infant son and it seems very clear that he will do all he needs to be in his sons life! He has taken to twitter and o…
    - 3 Mar 14, 5:00pm -
  • Hunting for White Racism
    Hunting for and turning over rocks to seek out evidence of white hypocrisy about race, seems to be a very popular pastime with many black women. Each day I get dozens of emails and articles in my inbox, on the topic of 'outing' whites as racist, agai…
    - 6 Feb 14, 3:42pm -
  • 12 years a slave and other things
    I am noticing more and more black women make unconventional choices.Maybe not unconventional re the rest of the world but re black women themselves and the fact that they have largely limited their range within the wider world and the broader context…
    - 16 Jan 14, 4:23pm -
  • Halima on <...Break...>
    ©Halima AndersonAuthor, "Supposing I wanted to Date a White Guy"
    - 4 Dec 13, 12:01am -
  • What a wrong detour could cost
    If the wrong idea takes root in your thinking it could take you off course. For some it could be twenty years before they come back to their senses and by the time they do, they could have lost so much time and so many lifecycle-dependent opportuniti…
    - 17 Nov 13, 6:43pm -
  • She who has much, more will be given
    For whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them. Matthew 25:29I used to have a problem with this saying from the gospels. It seemed so cruel and so unfair to me.…
    - 3 Nov 13, 2:59pm -